A silky water-based personal lubricant made for lesbian intimacy and couples' toy play. Toy-friendly with silicone, condom-safe, non-staining and gentle on sensitive skin — one bottle that works with every toy in your collection. Discreet shipping in plain, unmarked packaging.
Start by identifying the specific type of stimulation you want to target. Popular options include:
Determine how the toy will fit into your shared intimacy. If you are shopping for lesbian sex toys or partner play, consider versatile options like strap-on dildos, strapless vibrators, or remote-controlled toys that allow your partner to take the reins. For solo play, focus purely on your personal comfort, size preferences, and favorite vibration patterns.
Safest nonporous sex toy materials
Nonporous materials do not have microscopic holes, meaning they cannot trap bacteria and are 100% body-safe. The gold standards include:
Porous materials
Nonporous materials like medical-grade silicone, borosilicate glass, and stainless steel are vastly superior because they do not have microscopic holes. They are 100% body-safe sex toy materials that can be easily sanitized to remove all bacteria.
Conversely, porous materials (like jelly rubber, vinyl, and latex dildos) trap bodily fluids and bacteria inside invisible surface pockets. Even after a thorough wash, they can harbor microbes that lead to bacterial vaginosis (BV), yeast infections, or UTIs.
This is why Wet For Her dildos are made from high quality materials, such as 100% medical grade silicone to ensure all products are phthalate-free while providing a silky texture that is easy to clean and maintain.
Regular sex toy cleaning prevents harmful bacteria buildup, reduces the risk of infections (like UTIs or BV), and extends the lifespan of your adult novelties.
Use a specialized antibacterial foam sex toy cleaner or mild, unscented soap and warm water. Avoid harsh chemicals, alcohol, or dish soaps, which can degrade the material and cause skin irritation.
Silicone, glass, and metal sex toys
Because silicone, glass, and stainless steel are nonporous sex toy materials, they are the easiest to sanitize:
Using sex toys for solo play
Sex toys offer targeted stimulation that manual touching often cannot match, making it easier to reach climax and explore what feels good. Masturbation with sex toys releases endorphins, dopamine, and oxytocin, which naturally reduce stress, lower anxiety, improve sleep quality, and boost your mood.
Improve intimacy in a relation
shipIncorporating adult novelties into partner play breaks up bedroom routines, introduces novelty, and fosters open communication. They are perfect for clitoral stimulation during penetration or as a dynamic part of foreplay to ensure both partners are fully aroused and satisfied.
Take it slow and prioritize comfort. Choose a beginner-friendly small dildo or vibrator to prevent discomfort. Ensure you are relaxed and already experiencing some natural sexual arousal before attempting insertion—the goal is pleasure, not pain.
The correct way to apply lube
Coat the tip and shaft of your toy generously with a body-safe sex toy lubricant, smoothing it down with your hands. If you feel any friction or dryness during play, don’t hesitate to reapply. Remember: Always match your lube to your toy's material (use water-based lube for silicone toys).
While your body produces natural lubrication when aroused, using a dedicated sex toy lubricant is highly recommended every single time. Lube reduces friction, enhances physical sensations, prevents microscopic tears in sensitive skin, and allows the toy to glide effortlessly for maximum pleasure.
Let’s just say it – lube and sex toys are like peanut butter and jelly. You can never have “too much” lube, especially when trying out a new dildo.
